I learned a concept from Professor Tal Ben-Shahar, a professor of positive psychology at Harvard University, called "arrival fallacy."
It means that we often think that as long as we can reach a certain destination, everything will be accomplished, such as when I have money, when I am free, when I have time... Once that moment arrives, happiness will automatically come. But the paradox lies in the fact that if you do not feel happy in the present, then you, arriving at that goal in the future, will not actually be happy either. Because for you at that time, it will just be an ordinary "present
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