Seven Things to Understand Before Falling in Love: 1️⃣ Don't start too quickly. Extend the ambiguous phase, focus on understanding character. No matter how good everything else is, poor character equals zero. 2️⃣ For love with the goal of marriage, get to know the other person's personality before dating. If you can't accept it, don't start. When two people are together happily, encouraging each other to envision a future marriage will happen naturally. 3️⃣ Don't always complain to your partner about the same issue. 4️⃣ Your greatest confidence comes from yourself, including your mental and financial strength. Life is unpredictable, and people's hearts can change easily. You are the only one you can always rely on and control. 5️⃣ Every personality has two sides. While noticing flaws, also see the strengths behind them. Accept your partner from the bottom of your heart. If you dislike your partner, they will definitely feel it. 6️⃣ Set your own bottom line and principles. Don't touch your partner's bottom line, and don't let them touch yours. If they do, be serious and clear about it. Don't always tolerate silently, and don't be afraid of losing. 7️⃣ Don't progress too fast. Exposing flaws too early can cause the relationship to collapse when the foundation isn't stable. Overly intense feelings can be overwhelming and make the other person feel invincible. 8️⃣ Don't use pink-colored lenses.