“Low emotional intelligence, too blunt, too overly fixated on the judgment of right and wrong, and too attached to determining what’s right and what’s wrong.” That’s me—the main reasons I left some Kol small circles and didn’t go looking for an agency to “bring my younger brother along.” Especially last year, when I encountered a bunch of pretentious so-called seniors: they wouldn’t promote resources or bring projects—instead, they secretly tried to sabotage my “bread and butter,” all while putting on a condescending posture, expecting me to be humble and fawn over them.