The child at home who, after being scolded by you, only shrinks into the corner and remains silent, often becomes the one parents regret the most when they grow up. This is not alarmist talk, but a physiological reaction caused by the brain being "scolded" into dysfunction. Why does he not speak? Because his brain has activated a fake death escape mechanism, and he is stunned with fear. First, children like this tend to be very indifferent to family bonds when they grow up. Their silence in childhood is accumulating disappointment, and as they mature, they use detachment to protect themselves, making you think this child is ungrateful. Second, they will lack a sense of security and have a timid personality because they are used to silently enduring, afraid to express their needs, feeling that their voice is unimportant. Third, they will be extremely insecure, constantly negated, internalizing this attack and believing they are truly as stupid and useless as their parents scolded them to be. Do not take a child's silence for granted; it is his silent despair. To make children confident and sunny, start with speaking kindly.