Never rely on anyone in this lifetime. As long as you don't depend on others and approach interactions with the essence of trading, the outcome will never be too bad. The way of heaven is to diminish the excess and replenish the不足, which means using your surplus to exchange for what you lack. No one is born owing you anything, just as you are not born owing anyone. Anger is the表现 of弱者 pretending to be强者, and sadness is nothing more than self-hatred for one's own无能. Truly supporting yourself comes from a丰富的知识储备, sufficient经济基础,持续稳定的情绪, and a controllable生活节奏. By achieving these, you can become the unbeatable version of yourself.