Patriarchy and the nuclear family under capitalism are the root of all evil. In this family structure, there is no true mother—only a man's wife. The wife is not a mother; children are not nurtured by a mother, and without a mother’s nurturing, a person cannot become truly human. Behind most heinous, inhumane, twisted events in this world, there is often one or more men, and these men are usually supported by a wife-mother in the atomic family who has no voice, a high-level "household item" playing the perfect family role—so-called vase wife. More often than not, she is an old maid plus a sex slave. Children born to women who have lost their power, no matter how much they are beautified, are products of rape. The innate shame, emptiness, and sense of inferiority many people carry originate from this. No matter how high they rise, most live their lives trying to prove themselves, under the gaze of the outside world. They know their mother’s life had no option but to have children, and certainly no option not to have their own. They are not the loving, expected offspring their mother hoped for; the blood flowing in their veins is essentially that of a rapist... Most mothers (at least in East Asian environments) do not even bother to hide their disgust for their children—disgust for this living proof of their own weakness, helplessness, surrender to life, and escape from it, called a "burden." The helpless, shameful, angry, powerless emotions of the wife-mother need a safe outlet. The children become the ideal targets and emotional containers—flesh-and-blood punching bags. In the atomic family, the weak wife-mother projects all her lack and emptiness onto her inescapable children, draining their vitality, hollowing out their inner lives, parasitically living off them, and killing them off in a symbiotic relationship. The hollowed-out sons, once grown, are socialized and institutionalized to then "rape" another hollowed-out girl from another family. Two shells mate, giving birth to a new, living, fresh life, which then siphons vitality downward. Patriarchy thus "consumes" people in various forms, maintaining a fragile overall balance, continuing for thousands of years.

If you doubt what I say, you can learn about the Mosuo people in Yunnan. I recommend watching the documentary "The Story of Three Mosuo Women"—they have no marriage system, men do not marry, women do not marry, and there is no concept of an atomic family. Women are respected, men are not inferior. Women actively choose their preferred partners for mating (they could have free walking marriages, but often spend their entire lives with just one or two men—why? Because all relationships are highly bound and fused within socially prescribed frameworks, ultimately leading only to distortion, collapse, and mediocrity until death. In walking marriages, men and women do not live together regularly; the distance actually preserves the tension in their love...). The children born are raised collectively by the woman’s extended family, including her mother, brothers, and sisters. Every woman in this collective is a mother to the children; uncles act as fathers. Consider what the mental outlook of a group of people raised in a bloodline-based extended family, following human nature, looks like—daughters are never expelled (they can always be themselves, be daughters, and not live in fear and helplessness to give birth). Sons do not grow up in a lifestyle where they have to create suffering and conflicts with women unrelated by blood. Just from their physical and mental states, one can see how twisted and alienated the toxic seedlings grown in the soil of the nuclear family are—how dehumanized and ghost-like they are. The terrifying part is that some of these dehumanized, ghost-like people are even those in power. In short, patriarchy is a terror organization. As long as this organization remains intact, violence (cannibalism) and rape will continue to be the main themes of this world, and war will never end.