If you are too good to a woman, over time she will forget. If you give her money to spend, she will think it's only natural. If she asks you to change and you go along with her, that becomes endless changing. Because human nature is variable and desires are infinite, the wise person is the one who focuses on improving and bettering themselves, investing in themselves. Don't start out by giving women a lot of money, as it's easy to lose money, because they might leave you in an instant (just like recent BTC and gold). You can be good to someone for a long time, but just one incident can cause everything to collapse instantly. Emotions are very fragile things.